What about when it isn’t working?

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When we follow the steps to living our desires and the things we are asking for aren’t showing up—then what?

How do we deal with frustration, defeat and lack of results?

How do we  turn it around and get back in the zone?

We all know it’s easy to feel good when all is going well for us. It’s easy to really start believing the manifesting thing when life is going well.

But what about when it doesn’t? What about when things are not so rosy?

What about when we are doing the deal, meditating, thinking good thoughts, really following the bascis of manifesting principles and life just isn’t producing the results that we want?

Here are a few simple tips to getting your energy back on track and getting back into the flow of high vibration (or just higher vibration, because that is always the goal) and mastering the art of manifesting, getting what you want and living your desired life.

  • Whatever is bugging you—STOP FOCUSING ON IT. Train your brain to “let go of that stick.”  What that means is drop it, let it go. Write down the worst of it, get it all out on paper and then burn it. If you can’t feel good about a certain topic, then just stop thinking about it, long enough to get BACK INTO A BETTER FEELING PLACE ABOUT IT.  It’s not about ignoring it, entirely. It’s about recognizing it’s there and then choosing to replace it with a higher vibration thought or feeling.
  • Laugh, dance, sing, smile, exercise, hug, walk in nature. Just shift the energy by getting out of your normal routine. Change it up.
  • Dream, day dream, create a vision board. Do whatever you can to keep the vision of what you desire in your mind, in you awareness and in your “reality,” even though “reality” may be showing something different. If you want more money, but the bills keep piling in, get in a space of daydreaming, visualizing what it will look and feel like when you do have the exact amount of money you desire. It’s the constant art of knowing, expecting and seeing (without a shadow of a doubt) the thing you want, being there for  you, even in the face of adversity—even when life is showing the opposite of what you want.
  • Get out of your comfort zone and do something different. As the saying goes, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.”  If you want this thing in your life to finally shift, FOR REAL, then commit to stretching beyond your normal comfort zone and be bold, do that thing you’ve been wanting to do forever, but have created every excuse under the sun why NOT to. Choose to do it.

The main key to geting it to work, when it’s not, is to stop focusing on it NOT working and start feeling good, no matter what.

Feeling good, no matter what is they key to creating more happiness, health and wealth in your life.  It’s the key to our growth and the foundation to being masters of our choices and masters of manifesting. 

Choose you. Choose now. Choose wiser.

Much, much love,

Carrie Jolie Dale

p.s.  I am opening up 5 spots for private, VIP coaching. If you are ready to own it (your life, your truth, your brilliance), step into your power and ready to go beyond your comfort zone. E-mail evolve@carriedale.com  for details and availability.