Is it Enough to Just be Authentic?

Is it Enough to Just be Authentic?

One of the biggest buzz words flying around in the online world, coaching world, and personal success world is the

be-authentic

concept of being authentic. 

The gist is that if we are just our 100% authentic selves, then that will somehow skyrocket our lives and businesses.

Umm  . . how do I say this without sounding like a big “B”?  I would venture to guess that in a majority of cases, it is actually the persons authentic, real self that is getting in the way of having an amazing life and business. There, I said it.  

Being authentic and real might not be the best thing in some cases and could in fact be having a negative impact in our lives.

We could be authentically, mean. Authentically depressed. Authentically narcissistic. Authentically wounded. Just because it is real, doesn’t mean it is good, right or the best thing for you.

Sometimes you have to change, grow and evolve, so that your authentic self is the one that works for you, not against you.

My authentic self, at one point was not so amazing. My authentic self was insecure, negative, guilt ridden and just not very happy . . . to say the least.

I was a person that studied self -help and spiritual concepts to the point of overload and still was not getting what I was looking for.

That was the real, authentic me.

So how is that of value to myself or anyone? I know that people might argue that the real meaning of our authentic selves is that part of us that is connected to Source, Godwhatever word works for you. But I think it is actually just inferred, more often than explained.

Being authentic in the best sense means working on your shit. There, I said it. 

Being authentic means you operate from a place of awareness and consciousness, not old wounds, negative beliefs, or patterns.

If I kept hoping that my authentic self was going to make everything better, I might not be alive to be writing this post. My authentic, real self needed a massive makeover and couldn’t help others until she helped herself.

Being authentic isn’t enough. Because sometimes our authentic self is wounded, hurt, caught up in negative patterns or habits.

Yes, let’s be real. Yes, let’s be authentic. But lets be these things from a space of awareness, consciousness, growth and expansion.

Let’s not use this word and the concept as an excuse to stay stuck.

If we aren’t living the life we truly want and aren’t experiencing the success in life that we desire, then we are not operating with a healthy, well-adjusted authentic self.  

That God- like part of us wouldn’t choose that for ourselves. It would choose abundance, healing, joy, connection, confidence and clarity. 

There is no way we can help others, or make a positive impact in the world, if we havent first worked through our “stuff.”  

Choose to work on you first. Choose to be consciously authentic.

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 As Abe-Hicks says “Life is supposed to be fun.”

Enjoy.

Carrie Jolie Dale